Absent the trust in the Divine Goodness, which is Infinite, turn to me, beloved child, for I represent the Maternal Face of God for the Earth.
Goddess-Mother is Endless Mercy and will always forgive you of all sins.
It is you, however, who need to take the initiative to repent for your errors and omissions, beseeching Heaven for mercy and, above all, striving to make amends for the evils you have committed or for the benefits you have failed to spread.
Yet, if you lack conviction in the Eternal Reality of the Unrestricted Compassion of the Divinity, come to me in prayer, and I will serve as a living bridge between you and the Absolute Mother!
Be at peace, serve and love, as much as it is within your reach, and then be certain: the fruits of heavenly grace will soon appear in your pathways, in the maximum extent of your personal assimilation – that which does not disturb your current evolutionary rhythms and needs – even if the blessings bestowed do not often correspond to your human expectations since the Supreme Intelligence invariably provides what is, in fact, better for the true happiness of each one of His/Her creatures…
No matter the setbacks, the challenges or the frustrations that you face, move on, beloved child, seeking the unfaltering trust in the Divine Providence, which never ceases to offer Protection, Inspiration and Provision to your existential route, to your soul, to your faith!…
Benjamin Teixeira de Aguiar (medium) and Eugênia-Aspásia (Spirit)
in the Name of Mary Christ
Bethel, CT, metropolitan region of New York, USA
October 15, 2020
She represents the Sun-Love of the Goddess-Mother, Our Lady of Overflowing Wonders, pouring graces upon us and our loved ones, to an extent we cannot measure! And She has announced that She will come to dwell in the abode of our hearts, so as we may bear the great happiness of a well-founded faith, in this age of so much disorientation, so much hopelessness.
Welcome always, lovely Living Reflector of the Infinite Goodness of God! May we make ourselves worthy to have You with us! May we do more! May we do better! A little every day, advancing slowly, but steadily! So be it!
Benjamin Teixeira de Aguiar
Bethel, CT, metropolitan region of New York, USA
schoolofhappiness.net
Neuroses – or disorders, according to the modern vernacular of psychology on the physical plane — make up complex systems of maintenance and regulation of the psychism, according to the individual’s own needs, very often of a compensatory nature. For instance: people who were attacked in their self-esteem as children may develop a sense of personal excellence, which leads them to arrogance and presumption; or, in the opposite way, according to very personal characteristics, they may develop a projection of power, in a close or distant idol, with whom they identify on a pre- conscious or unconscious level, as in the case of the “women-Cinderella” who await the arrival of the “man-god-savior-solver-of-all-problems” or in the case of fans who idolize celebrities.
The psychological archetypes (allow the apparent pleonasm), however, can be an excellent and effective alternative to socio-cultural stereotypes (this is the reason for the previous pleonasm — to justify the use of the adjectives for stereotypes, distinguishing its origin and nature in comparison with archetypes), such as that of the “arrogant guy” or the “idiot Cinderella”. Trying to elaborate one’s own problems and shortcomings with compensatory realizations and functions, with services rendered to the community, is a magnificent way of resolving one’s own intimate pending issues. God does not allow disturbances without creative purposes. Therefore, face each one of your inner or existential problematics as an invitation to unfold one virtue or a set of new attributes, additional talents, expanded power and lucidity.
In this sense, those who feel “very sure” of themselves and, at the same time, have realized their reverse of unconscious low self-esteem, as much as the diametrically opposite psychotype: of the person with an inferiority complex at the conscious level, who has already connected to their sense of their unconscious arrogance, can transfer their sense of low self-worth to a sense of reverence and recognition of the Divine power, and project his/her emotional counterpart of overconfidence in God, thus serving Him-Her, in the person of their brothers and sisters in humanity, thereby embracing both sides of the neurotic “inferiority-superiority” coin, a psychic binomial, as there are in fact so many in the structures of the human mind. The two poles begin to act in cooperation, constructively, and both at the conscious level, which is the path of psychological integration sought by all psychotherapeutic schools, because the individual recognizes/acknowledges/accepts his/her own inferiority, and, simultaneously, experiences the compensatory impulse of the superiority-savior, in the image and Person of God. Now, the woman with the “Cinderella complex” may work ardently to unfold in herself all the characteristics that she mentally delineates in the figure of the “Prince Charming”, making them goals for herself, instead of idealizing them in a hypothetical partner to consociate with.
On the other hand, also be careful not to attack someone who is already very fragile. Very often, very imposing people are nothing more than inflatable-inflated balloons, with a lot of volume but no content in it other than air. Inversely, pay attention to the “externalized” fragility of certain individuals: it may be a mere behavioral simulacrum, an emotional mask to seduce the incautious, thus articulating ways to dominate and possess, through intricate complexes of guilt and of fear, carefully woven into a strategic web of manipulation.
In everything, strive to be lucid, attentive to the fact that the mind has a natural tendency to descend to atavistic levels of automatic functioning, and is therefore primitive in its judgments and reactions to the external world. Pray, meditate, observe acutely. Go to therapy, consult your spiritual counselor. Read, research, inform yourself by any means at your disposal. And, finally, question everything, mainly your certainties and victim complexes, surrendering to God and His-Her emissaries, when the intuition of the best thing to do, not postponing, however, any initiative that becomes/is urgent and necessary.
This is the path of the best lucidity, and of the smallest error.
(Text received on August 14th, 2005)
What makes your so old and hallucinating pain not to abandon you?
I ask, on the other hand: why do you perpetuate the tight embrace in which you enlace and fetter yourself to it, crushing yourself with a dreadful and excruciating agony?…
The answer is simple: you have not yet endured enough to get saturated, to get sufficiently tired of suffering to renounce the hidden and unspeakable benefits of false security and morbid familiarity that you find in it.
Choose instead, beloved child, the courageous leap of conscience that will guide you through the frightening and, concomitantly and paradoxically, wonderful journey of the profound restart, of the solution and liberation of the past, toward the radiant future of peace and happiness that awaits you…
Benjamin Teixeira de Aguiar (medium) Matheus-Anacleto (Spirit)
in the Name of Mary Christ
Bethel, CT, metropolitan region of New York, USA
February 10, 2021
“Love” that consists only of sweetness is, in depth, seduction.
“Love” that is only severity constitutes, in essence, hostility.
Love adjusts its manifestation to the needs of the loved one, according to the circumstances and possibilities of expression, and the purer it is the more befitting the adjustment.
Benjamin Teixeira de Aguiar (medium) Eugênia-Aspásia (Spirit)
in the Name of Mary Christ
September 10, 2016
