Happiness without delays

Happiness without delays  

 

 

Instead of complaining that something is wrong: 

1. Look at what, in practical terms, you can do to solve the issue. 

2. Otherwise, see how you can compensate yourself for the frustration that saddens you. 

3. Notice the beautiful side of life, the positive aspects, the favors, the benefits that life awards you. 

4. Get out of yourself and pay attention to the pain and needs of others, and you will realize how happy you are and how you have not even noticed it.  

5. When you come out of yourself to observe the universe of others, focus on who is below you rather than on who is above you. So why whine about what you do not have and what you are not, if you already have so much to see and feel yourself as happy?  

Do not make many observations of pain. Suffering is merely an invitation from life for you to discover happiness. Be happy, my friend. Life is so wonderful! Wake up to this spectacular side of existence, of being able to think freely, to choose paths, alternatives of destiny and fulfillment, opportunities of learning, of friendship and of constant growth…  Faced with so much, only an insane person can pass through the world unhappily. 

You, then, can say that the world you live in, based on the latter statement, is kind of crazy—and you would be right. Do not take part in this collective delusion of perceiving life as hard, bitter, depressing and dangerous. Life is an explosion of possibilities, stimuli and experiences. It demands effort, shrewdness and courage, but it does not constitute the bedlam that people usually picture it to be. 

It is up to you to enrich your perceptions, to turn life into a spectacle of colors (joy), lights (new ideas and knowledge) and affections, through the correct use of your free will. Here is the key point: Remember your inherent right to freedom and make conscious choices. Do not jump on the bandwagon of the culture of skepticism and cynicism that pervades Western civilization — the culture of conditionings toward sadness and preoccupation, which we are all compelled to develop. 

Be responsible, ethical, fair and spiritual, dedicated and hardworking, but do not consume yourself in tension and anguish. It is clear that such behavior is a divergence of the standards of conduct, a distortion of the most logical and sensible line of thought, a complete inversion of values. Do not wish to look serious and mature: intend to be happy — not to look like it, but to really be happy! This is the best way to show that you really are mature and spiritualized, since systematic sadness and stress reveal a limited, immature, and/or sick soul. 

Be happy, today, right now.  Follow your conscience, act fairly and altruistically, but happily. The choice is yours.  

 

 

 

Eugênia-Aspásia (Spirit) 

Benjamin Teixeira de Aguiar (medium) 

November 20, 2001. 

Evolutionary Downloads

Evolutionary Downloads

Evolutionary Downloads 

 

The crises of adult life, the childhood traumas, the great setbacks and frustrations of the existence, as a whole, besides offering, more effectively, the “download” of evolutionary achievements that the spirit brings latent, in the depths of their unconscious, deriving from previous reincarnations, also maximize the development of these and of other skills, in the scopes of the intelligence or of the feeling. 

Benjamin Teixeira de Aguiar and Spiritual Friends  

New York (NY, USA), 12/20/2017 

Succinct and prophetic…

Succinct and prophetic...

Succinct and prophetic… 

 

The Great Mother of the earthly humanity, Representative of the Maternal Side of God to our planet, was laconic and enveloped in a sublime aura of melancholy. After a slight gesture, as a way of greeting, She told us, briefly:  

Or God… or nothing… 

Or solidarity… or decadence…  

Or spirit of service… or chaos… 

Or authentic fraternity between individuals and peoples…  

or the inevitable destruction of this planetary community… 

May we wake up from the multimillennial torpor of egoic whims in which we take pleasure, or the hypnosis of the forces of evil will lead us to the abyss, individually and collectively… 

 

Holy MARY, in interaction with the Spirit Eugênia-Aspásia 

Psychography received by Benjamin Teixeira de Aguiar 

New Fairfield, Connecticut, USA 

December 9, 2017 

A motto for the New Age

A motto for the New Age

A motto for the New Age

 

Because we are going through a very serious national and international crisis, I suggest a motto to be lived, daily, in this and in the coming years by the largest possible number of people:  

A multifaceted sense of responsibility (social, ecological, planetary and spiritual), applied, with discipline, in all spheres of the existence. 

 

Benjamin Teixeira de Aguiar 

New Fairfield, CT, USA 

Seizing the Time

 You, who are young, use the time you have with quality. Sooner than you think, maturity and senescence will come, whispering sinister warnings concerning the end of the line. Young men and women usually suffer, on Earth, from the lamentable delusion of being physically immortal. Even if they believe to be fully aware of their organic finitude, they act as if there was plenty of time ahead, in their physical body, wasting precious opportunities (many of them unrecoverable) of doing, being, loving and changing, in the short space of one existence in the physical life. 

You, who are middle-aged, do not surrender to bitterness and remorse for the time lost during your young years. Very few People go through young age without some serious time squandering. Besides, very little can be done during youth, because of the lack of inner support for doing so. Maturity is the apogee of life. Between the ages 30 and 60, the human being experiences the most productive, creative and fertile phase of their life. During this time, fair amounts of youth’s strength and vitality are combined with the experience and the confidence bestowed by time. Instead of thinking about the time lost, consider intelligent ways to compensate yourself for the lost time, doing more and better in less time. 

You, who journey through your elderly years — freely considering here, all the time that goes beyond the age of 60, in the physical body — understand that this is the golden phase of your life. Only those who reach this age, with lucidity and health, have enough clarity for the great visions of the spirit. Old age is the field of exploration of the soul. In it, not only the wisdom acquired in a lifetime is consolidated, but also important insights of the near and distant future are attainable.  

No one becomes competent enough, for big responsibilities, until they have reached or are close to reaching this age. The government of the peoples, the guidance of crowds, the religious, the artistic and cultural leadership, as much as possible, ought to be in the hands of older people, who have been seasoned by time and life. Of course that there are precociously mature youngsters, as there are also some imbecile and superficial elders. The body does not always depict the Spirit. However, it is necessary, almost always, for the fully expression of the soul’s evolutionary achievements, a brain that has been prepared by years of uninterrupted activity, favoring, thus, the channeling of subtleties of the Spirit into the brutality of the matter. 

Regardless of your age, consider using time properly. Time is our greatest judge, just as much as our greatest gift, the most precious asset that we have at hand for the realization of our projects, for the accomplishment of our ideals. 

Do not leave for tomorrow, due to the addiction to procrastination, nor consign to the past, in the torment of remorse for the time lost, what you can do today. Do it now, even if just a little, but keep on doing this “little”, continuously, daily, systematically, and you will be surprised by the effects of this persistence. For those who persevere, resources, allies, inspiration and energy always come for the manifestation of divine ideals. 

There is no greater tragedy than the loss of time, of opportunities to do good to oneself and to others. Do not waste the opportunity of doing today, even if in small doses, everything you deem essential, from a declaration of love to the spouse immersed in the routine of a tedious marriage, to the first initiative for the fulfillment of an old dream. It is possible to be happy at any stage of life. For this to happen, It is important to make the good use of time a top priority, so that, in the realization of the good, as in the transformation of the evil into a greater encouragement and information toward the practice of good, one succeeds in reaching that feeling of wholeness, personal fulfillment, happiness and peace. 

 

Spirit Eugênia-Aspásia 

Medium: Benjamin Teixeira de Aguiar  

October 9, 2001